This is a question I hear a lot and given how long it took me to realise what it is that I do with people and give it a name it’s no wonder. I’ve spent many years refining the way I work with people, what issues I like to focus on and what it is I ‘do’ with people. As I can help anyone of any age with any problem it took me a while to figure out what it was that I was specializing in. After all that’s what they all say, find your specialty, your niche that you excel at and perfect it and for years I was scratching my head wondering why I had not found it.
Then one day it occurred to me that breakthroughs and transformations was what I was providing for people. My gift is that I can pinpoint the source of a problem and give clients the breakthroughs they need to change their lives profoundly. So when I’m hearing someone talk to me, I’m looking at their body, how they run their energy, how their mind works and what attitudes and beliefs they have and I start to formulate what it is that is stopping them from really excelling in life and having all that they want. After all why can’t you have all you want, why not you?
What I find amazing is that basically we all have the same sorts of problems, there is not a huge list of things that can happen to us, it’s pretty short but the way we all get there is what is different. Because of the way culture is we often don’t see this similarity we all have as we are so busy trying to hide what is not right and only show what’s going well. Luckily I’m able to see through all that to the source of where it all started, which is always a really long time ago and very unconscious.
If you don’t tackle a problem at the source, and create breakthroughs from there, then the work is only superficial and will not last very long. We’ve all had experiences where we have a change that is temporary and feel very dismayed when we return to the way we ‘were’ before wondering why it didn’t last. For change to be permanent it has to be deep and that means it has to be where the problem originated. The great thing then is the changes we make at that deep level is what causes the transformation of the other layers and like a ripple in a pond our whole life and personality is affected by these changes.
So if you are looking to take your life to the next level whether it’s your career, your relationships, your friends or just yourself breakthrough and transformational counselling will help you get there.
