Family Constellations

Connect to become whole again...

It is increasingly clear from research in neuro-biology, epigenetics, somatic experiencing and psychotherapy that behavioral patterns are often carried from one  generation to the next.

Family & Systemic Constellations is a powerful process for tapping into the unconscious, hidden dynamics (sometimes  referred to as the ‘knowing field’) that may be playout out in your life and holding you back from ‘living the life you deserve’. 

?Maybe a parent or a child died early, or someone went missing in a family and was not spoken about, maybe someone committed a crime and never paid for it (did the time), a parent was excluded didn't have access to children. 

These people or events can cause a energy block in a family system. Unconsciously this pattern can play out in later generations, even if we know no history of the first event. A child comes along generations later and feels the same dynamic from generations past but has not conscious understanding of their feelings.  Often seeking help for their feelings as they feel so real for them, but what if they were not your feelings, your story, your struggles and you were carrying them for the bigger family system.

Using a systemic lens we can look at the bigger family system and put things back in order. If you are wondering why do I feel 

• sad,
• depressed,
• lonely
• empty
• not  able to connect
• ignored
• wronged
• the truth is never really spoken

?and it does not make sense to you, maybe you are feeling the feelings of the unresolved stories of past generations. These events can also show up as 

• affairs
• early deaths
• Illness
• not living our purchase
• abuse
• repeating relationship pattern
• financial problems
• feelings that do not make sense
• grief
• and so much more...

How Can a Constellation Help?

Patterns can often become so embedded in our behaviours and attitudes that they seem to be ‘normal’, even when they are destructive. They may be so intimately integrated into our view of who we are that we are unable to see an alternative way of living, loving and relating, and are unable to break out of this cycle of behaviour that we no longer want.

Constellations helps you look at

• how this pattern of behaviour is playing out in your life,
• what it may be doing for your bigger family system.
• What is out of order,
• what is needed
• and what is not needed.

The facilitator then helps bring the natural order back to your system through the constellations process.

Helping you to

• release the blame,
• hurt,
• judgement
• and bring back the natural love
• connection in your relationships.

Constellations helps you to take back your place in your family system, so you can live your life fully and be all that you are truly capable of being.

What is a Constellation Useful For?

If you are living with;

• ?Emotional and self esteem issues
• Divorce and separation issues
• Parenting issues
• Children and behavior issues
• Relationship and family issues
• Financial Issues
• Business Issues
• Health Issues
• Behaviors that you no longer want
• Feelings you can’t explain or move past

Are ready to experience new insight into the old paradigm, the old way of being and thinking and are ready for a life of;

• greater peace
• harmony
• happiness
• abundance
• and love