Aaron Rinder
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Available to suit you. Will travel to your home in the Perth metropolitan region.
Aaron's Mobile Counselling
Servicing area
Mobile Service, Perth, Western Australia.Focus areas
Values
Inner power
Love
Hopelessness
Stress Management
Forgiveness
Benefits of Counselling
Regaining respect, friendship, kindness, passion and remembering forgiveness in our relationship are corner stones to a successful relationship. If your relationship is "on the rocks", it isn't over. Something very powerful drew you together in the first place. Our pride and even our ego can be barriers to the cement that glues us together as partners.
A relationship needs to be nurtured and so does your partner. We all need to feel Respect, Kindness, Intimacy, Love, Desired, Passion, Fulfillment, Trust, Listened to and Friendship. Every man and woman desires to be wanted, that their partner acknowledges their intelligence, to be forgiven when they do wrong, and most importantly, to love and be loved.
Counselling can assist us to become aware of our awesome inner power, self will and control we have over our behaviours.
With Aaron, you can also gain these additional benefits:
I provide the following areas of Counselling:
About Aaron
Aaron has strong family values and understands how to build family relationships. " I believe relationships between men and women are a beautiful and wonderful thing. Respect for each other, and friendship are paramount in any relationship. Relationships need time and attention to flourish, take time for romance, togetherness, tenderness and intimacy. As humans we need this connection to others. It is the cement for a healthy relationship.
Often we come from different family backgrounds in the way our parents raised us, and we will often subconsciouly learn and imitate their coping styles (ways of coping) to stressful events. There are ways to deal with a situation other than the ways we have always reacted.
Aaron has worked within the Prison system as a group facilitator providing counselling to violent offenders in prison and recently in the community. These are people, who are struggling with violence issues in intimate relationships. Aaron is helping people to deal with aggression and to learn alternate coping styles with conflict in their intimate relationship. Losing your temper, arguing and causing conflict in relationship is never much fun. Loving and harmony with your partner is a realistic goal you can have.
Losing your temper, arguing and causing conflict in relationship is never much fun. Loving and harmony with your partner is a realistic goal you can have.
Aaron graduated with a Bachelor of Social Work in 2008. He was also granted certified membership with the Australian Association of Social Workers in the same year.
Relationships
Relationships – Fun, Love, Intimacy. Get off your phone? Do you need date night?
One of the frustrations I come across in many couples is the mobile phone. One of the couple is constantly texting or on Facebook or a digital site. Meanwhile your partner who is right there – is kind of bored and can’t believe you would interact with a digital device than them, a real live person.
What to do ? Focus on each other. We need to be more accessible and be able to respond to each other’s emotional needs. We must tune into each other emotionally, talk more. Discuss what is working and what is not, if things aren’t working. Sometimes we lose sight of what’s important. Talking with each other can also become difficult and that’s when a Counsellor is needed. I can help you recapture your love, to focus on what’s important.
Yes, our relationships can become very complex. They are also a learned behaviour.
The cornerstone to love and relationships is friendship kindness and respect. Sometimes we need a mediator to help us realise that we need to recapture the respect and friendship with each other. If we get used to each other we can tend to take the other person for granted. Respect starts to slip, and before we know it, we are treating out partner poorly.
Parenting
If we get married and children become involved, the waters can become murky unless both partners are on the same page. As a couple, you both will have a different understanding around ideas of discipline for your children. Parenting differently can confuse your children. I have done the Positive Parenting Program, and this is a great approach.
Domestic Violence
What is Domestic Violence?
This is a pattern of abusive behaviour in relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, or psychological actions or threats of actions that affect another person.
Our home is meant to be our Castle. Our retreat away from the stresses of life. A place where we can relax and feel safe. Violence is unnecessary. Violence against women or against men is unlawful and counted as Assault in a Court of Law in Australia. Witnessing Domestic Violence also has a devastating effect on children. Children will be more likely to develop mental health concerns in their lifetime. Children are also likely to repeat behaviour they see exhibited by parents. Thus if they see their father speaking aggressively to their mother, male children are likely to repeat the same behaviour with their partner later in life. The female child who sees her mother lose her temper at her father, also is likely to repeat the behaviour with her future partner. Do you want this for your children? I can help you learn to change your behaviour.
Domestic Violence can start with simple disagreements, disrespect and is a cyclic phenomenon. Disagreements lead to frustration. Frustration builds up to anger. When one of the parties in the relationship cannot control their anger, the frustration builds up to an explosion. Bang! That person lashes out and hurt their partner when they realise they cannot control them. Then they realise what they have done, are sorry if they hurt their partner. And so starts he honeymoon period when both parties are happy. Usually the aggressor will start to pursue their partner again. Sorry they might lose their partner, the aggressor may even shower their partner with gifts, or loving attention.
If your partner tries to control you and puts limits on your access to money, telephone, transport,clothing, free time, friends (are some examples), then this is also forms of abuse
What Can I Do?
Through various Counselling techniques, I can help you see this kind of behaviour is wrong, and that you do have the power to change your behaviour. There are techniques you can learn and use to change your behaviour. There are things many you can to improve your relationship.
Substance Use rehabilitation
Why do you have difficulty with an addiction?
Addictions to Alcohol, Drugs, Gambling, Occur when that substance use or behaviour impacts negatively on those around you, on your family, particularly you partner and children.
I can help you learn to control your desires for addictive behaviour. You will be empowered to learn your triggers to buy and use alcohol, drugs or addictive behaviour and also learn to stay on top of the impulses and desires that are controlling you. You can again learn how to be the master of your own destiny, and be in charge of what you think and do.
Serious addictions can have a profound effect on our family, in particular our partner and children. We can become addicted to substances including alcohol and drugs for a variety of reasons.
Substance use (drugs) can be a very expensive and dangerous habit, which can seriously endanger our life, and our partners. Through needle sharing we can be exposed to deadly and life threatening illnesses such as the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV), Hepatitis B (HBV), and Hepatitis C (HCV).
Due to the powerful effect of some substances individuals will have great difficulty giving up or kicking the habit.
I have experience counselling people with Alcohol and Drug issues, Cannabis, Amphetamines, including Ice, Heroin and smoking. I have also worked in a substance use rehabilitation agency and in a major men’s prison focusing on alcohol and drug rehabilitation. During these times my training has focused particularly on motivational interviewing, emotional focused coping styles that an addict can learn to empower themselves, thus making conscious choices to alter their behaviour.
Depression
Depression is defined as feelings of severe despondency and dejection.
"Self-doubt creeps in and that swiftly turns to depression"
synonyms:
Depression is a result of persistent negative thinking. If we continually focus on the bad things that happen in our lives, there is a good chance we are not going to feel like jumping for joy. Feeling sorry for ourselves is normal, but if we keep and continually feel sorry for ourselves, and focusing on the negative, then that will control our level of happiness.
Sure we can go to the doctor about our depression. He will diagnose you and prescribe depression tablets in no time at all. Or we can realise they – hey bad things happen to everyone, and we can learn where our focus is. What are we thinking About ? Think about, what you are thinking about. We can get rid of our stinking thinking. Because what we choose to think about is either going to make us either positive or Negative. Either Happy or Sad.
We can set goals, we can have Hope, Dreams, Aspirations. Imagine a better future ?
Forget the past. What matters is the here and now, and what we chose to do with ourselves today, because our future leads on to tomorrow. Some people will need help with their depression, and with their thinking. I can help you with that. Give me a call.
Anger Management
Sometimes people find it hard to control emotion, especially Anger. The way we deal with our emotion is an ingrained and emotional response we unconsciously learned in childhood from watching our parents behave and respond to situations.
We can change our behaviour. We all have free will to behave and respond to differently in each situation. If our partner is not happy with us because we seem aggressive, we have free will to learn how to use different coping skills to behave differently.
Learn how to:
Gambling Help
Gambling affects approximately 5 Million people every year in Australia.
Problem Gamblers are 4 times as likely to have issues with Alcohol/drugs and smoking.
Ref. http://www.problemgambling.gov.au/facts/
Betting on the dogs/horses, sporting events, Casino Games, Electronic gaming,Slot Machines, Video Poker, Card Games, Two-up etc. where people bet money on games of Chance hoping to attain a windfall of money can be fun, but also a debilitating past- time. That is, you may have a shortage of money for the necessities of life. i.e. food, bills, mortgage, rent, petrol for your car.
With Aaron, you can learn to:
Court Report Writing
References can be written to the Courts for a number of reasons:
Anger Management
Child Access issues or Family issues
Pre-Sentence Reports
To assist a Judge or Magistrate to make a fully informed decision in:
To write any report for the Courts or Government Department it would be necessary to spend a minimum of four hours of Counselling Sessions with you usually over a 4 week period.
Positive parenting
Parents face many issues raising children, including:
Testimonials
I can highly recommend Aaron. I am incredibly grateful to him for his supportive approach and positive attitude, which was exactly what our 20 year old son needed. He has assisted so much with setting goals, building confidence and self esteem and giving practical techniques for when stress and anxieties creep up. My only regret is that we didn’t contact Aaron sooner!
- Tracy
My nephew had withdrawn into his room, stopped studying and separated himself from family and friends. This continued for over 2 years. The toll on our family was enormous. As a family we had tried everything.
Then Aaron came into our family's life like a breath of fresh air.
Aaron explored issues of anxiety, depression, excessive computer use and loss of focus with my nephew. With respect and kindness,
he showed my nephew a way out. My nephew is now studying, socialising and contributing in life.
We are so grateful to Aaron. A true professional. Words fall short to express our gratitude.
- Pauline
Dear Aaron,
Thanks for helping work through some issues in our marriage. You have given us some very practical tools to use now + in the future, and I am confident we can work through almost anything that arises together as a family.
You are a lifesaver!
- Theresa & Daniel
Regaining respect, friendship, kindness, passion and remembering forgiveness in our relationship are corner stones to a successful relationship. If your relationship is "on the rocks", it isn't over. Something very powerful drew you together in the first place. Our pride and even our ego can be barriers to the cement that glues us together as partners.
A relationship needs to be nurtured and so does your partner. We all need to feel Respect, Kindness, Intimacy, Love, Desired, Passion, Fulfillment, Trust, Listened to and Friendship. Every man and woman desires to be wanted, that their partner acknowledges their intelligence, to be forgiven when they do wrong, and most importantly, to love and be loved.
Counselling can assist us to become aware of our awesome inner power, self will and control we have over our behaviours.
With Aaron, you can also gain these additional benefits:
- Relax and feel comfortable in your own home environment
- No costs or hassles to find parking
- Aaron comes to you
I provide the following areas of Counselling:
- Marital and
- Relationship Counselling
- Family Therapy
- Premarital Counselling
- Mentor young people to seek and attain employment or further education or a career path
- General Counselling
- Report Writing for Family Court
- Anger Management Counselling,
- Counselling with Troubled Teens
- Depression Counselling
- Court Report Writing
About Aaron
Aaron has strong family values and understands how to build family relationships. " I believe relationships between men and women are a beautiful and wonderful thing. Respect for each other, and friendship are paramount in any relationship. Relationships need time and attention to flourish, take time for romance, togetherness, tenderness and intimacy. As humans we need this connection to others. It is the cement for a healthy relationship.
Often we come from different family backgrounds in the way our parents raised us, and we will often subconsciouly learn and imitate their coping styles (ways of coping) to stressful events. There are ways to deal with a situation other than the ways we have always reacted.
Aaron has worked within the Prison system as a group facilitator providing counselling to violent offenders in prison and recently in the community. These are people, who are struggling with violence issues in intimate relationships. Aaron is helping people to deal with aggression and to learn alternate coping styles with conflict in their intimate relationship. Losing your temper, arguing and causing conflict in relationship is never much fun. Loving and harmony with your partner is a realistic goal you can have.
Losing your temper, arguing and causing conflict in relationship is never much fun. Loving and harmony with your partner is a realistic goal you can have.
Aaron graduated with a Bachelor of Social Work in 2008. He was also granted certified membership with the Australian Association of Social Workers in the same year.
Relationships
Relationships – Fun, Love, Intimacy. Get off your phone? Do you need date night?
One of the frustrations I come across in many couples is the mobile phone. One of the couple is constantly texting or on Facebook or a digital site. Meanwhile your partner who is right there – is kind of bored and can’t believe you would interact with a digital device than them, a real live person.
What to do ? Focus on each other. We need to be more accessible and be able to respond to each other’s emotional needs. We must tune into each other emotionally, talk more. Discuss what is working and what is not, if things aren’t working. Sometimes we lose sight of what’s important. Talking with each other can also become difficult and that’s when a Counsellor is needed. I can help you recapture your love, to focus on what’s important.
Yes, our relationships can become very complex. They are also a learned behaviour.
The cornerstone to love and relationships is friendship kindness and respect. Sometimes we need a mediator to help us realise that we need to recapture the respect and friendship with each other. If we get used to each other we can tend to take the other person for granted. Respect starts to slip, and before we know it, we are treating out partner poorly.
Parenting
If we get married and children become involved, the waters can become murky unless both partners are on the same page. As a couple, you both will have a different understanding around ideas of discipline for your children. Parenting differently can confuse your children. I have done the Positive Parenting Program, and this is a great approach.
Domestic Violence
What is Domestic Violence?
This is a pattern of abusive behaviour in relationship that is used by one partner to gain or maintain power and control over another intimate partner. Domestic violence can be physical, sexual, emotional, economic, or psychological actions or threats of actions that affect another person.
Our home is meant to be our Castle. Our retreat away from the stresses of life. A place where we can relax and feel safe. Violence is unnecessary. Violence against women or against men is unlawful and counted as Assault in a Court of Law in Australia. Witnessing Domestic Violence also has a devastating effect on children. Children will be more likely to develop mental health concerns in their lifetime. Children are also likely to repeat behaviour they see exhibited by parents. Thus if they see their father speaking aggressively to their mother, male children are likely to repeat the same behaviour with their partner later in life. The female child who sees her mother lose her temper at her father, also is likely to repeat the behaviour with her future partner. Do you want this for your children? I can help you learn to change your behaviour.
Domestic Violence can start with simple disagreements, disrespect and is a cyclic phenomenon. Disagreements lead to frustration. Frustration builds up to anger. When one of the parties in the relationship cannot control their anger, the frustration builds up to an explosion. Bang! That person lashes out and hurt their partner when they realise they cannot control them. Then they realise what they have done, are sorry if they hurt their partner. And so starts he honeymoon period when both parties are happy. Usually the aggressor will start to pursue their partner again. Sorry they might lose their partner, the aggressor may even shower their partner with gifts, or loving attention.
If your partner tries to control you and puts limits on your access to money, telephone, transport,clothing, free time, friends (are some examples), then this is also forms of abuse
What Can I Do?
Through various Counselling techniques, I can help you see this kind of behaviour is wrong, and that you do have the power to change your behaviour. There are techniques you can learn and use to change your behaviour. There are things many you can to improve your relationship.
Substance Use rehabilitation
Why do you have difficulty with an addiction?
Addictions to Alcohol, Drugs, Gambling, Occur when that substance use or behaviour impacts negatively on those around you, on your family, particularly you partner and children.
I can help you learn to control your desires for addictive behaviour. You will be empowered to learn your triggers to buy and use alcohol, drugs or addictive behaviour and also learn to stay on top of the impulses and desires that are controlling you. You can again learn how to be the master of your own destiny, and be in charge of what you think and do.
Serious addictions can have a profound effect on our family, in particular our partner and children. We can become addicted to substances including alcohol and drugs for a variety of reasons.
Substance use (drugs) can be a very expensive and dangerous habit, which can seriously endanger our life, and our partners. Through needle sharing we can be exposed to deadly and life threatening illnesses such as the human immunodeficiency virus (HIV), Hepatitis B (HBV), and Hepatitis C (HCV).
Due to the powerful effect of some substances individuals will have great difficulty giving up or kicking the habit.
I have experience counselling people with Alcohol and Drug issues, Cannabis, Amphetamines, including Ice, Heroin and smoking. I have also worked in a substance use rehabilitation agency and in a major men’s prison focusing on alcohol and drug rehabilitation. During these times my training has focused particularly on motivational interviewing, emotional focused coping styles that an addict can learn to empower themselves, thus making conscious choices to alter their behaviour.
Depression
Depression is defined as feelings of severe despondency and dejection.
"Self-doubt creeps in and that swiftly turns to depression"
synonyms:
melancholy, misery, sadness, unhappiness, sorrow, woe, gloom, gloominess,dejection, downheartedness, despondency, dispiritedness, low spirits, heavy-heartedness, moroseness, discouragement, despair, desolation, dolefulness,moodiness, pessimism, hopelessness;Depression is a mood disorder that causes a persistent feeling of sadness and loss of interest. Also called major depression or clinical depression, if it lasts for longer than12 months. Depression affects how you think, feel and behave and can lead to a variety of emotional and physical problems.
Depression is a result of persistent negative thinking. If we continually focus on the bad things that happen in our lives, there is a good chance we are not going to feel like jumping for joy. Feeling sorry for ourselves is normal, but if we keep and continually feel sorry for ourselves, and focusing on the negative, then that will control our level of happiness.
Sure we can go to the doctor about our depression. He will diagnose you and prescribe depression tablets in no time at all. Or we can realise they – hey bad things happen to everyone, and we can learn where our focus is. What are we thinking About ? Think about, what you are thinking about. We can get rid of our stinking thinking. Because what we choose to think about is either going to make us either positive or Negative. Either Happy or Sad.
We can set goals, we can have Hope, Dreams, Aspirations. Imagine a better future ?
Forget the past. What matters is the here and now, and what we chose to do with ourselves today, because our future leads on to tomorrow. Some people will need help with their depression, and with their thinking. I can help you with that. Give me a call.
Anger Management
Sometimes people find it hard to control emotion, especially Anger. The way we deal with our emotion is an ingrained and emotional response we unconsciously learned in childhood from watching our parents behave and respond to situations.
We can change our behaviour. We all have free will to behave and respond to differently in each situation. If our partner is not happy with us because we seem aggressive, we have free will to learn how to use different coping skills to behave differently.
Learn how to:
- Change our mindset and our thinking patterns
- How to recognise our emotions
- Use alternate coping styles
- Change negative behaviour
- Improve our communication skills
Gambling Help
Gambling affects approximately 5 Million people every year in Australia.
Problem Gamblers are 4 times as likely to have issues with Alcohol/drugs and smoking.
Ref. http://www.problemgambling.gov.au/facts/
Betting on the dogs/horses, sporting events, Casino Games, Electronic gaming,Slot Machines, Video Poker, Card Games, Two-up etc. where people bet money on games of Chance hoping to attain a windfall of money can be fun, but also a debilitating past- time. That is, you may have a shortage of money for the necessities of life. i.e. food, bills, mortgage, rent, petrol for your car.
With Aaron, you can learn to:
- Take Control and Change your behaviour
- Control your impulses for gambling
- Gambling affecting your mood and those closest to you?
- Learn new coping skills
- Is gambling affecting you financially?
- Problem gamblers are six times more likely to be divorced than non-problem gamblers (source)
- Cognitive Behaviour Therapy for problem gambling
- Learn budgeting skills
Court Report Writing
References can be written to the Courts for a number of reasons:
Anger Management
Child Access issues or Family issues
Pre-Sentence Reports
To assist a Judge or Magistrate to make a fully informed decision in:
- Family Court
- Civil Court
- Court of Petty Sessions
- District Court
- Supreme Court
- Department of Immigration
To write any report for the Courts or Government Department it would be necessary to spend a minimum of four hours of Counselling Sessions with you usually over a 4 week period.
Positive parenting
Parents face many issues raising children, including:
- Ways to discipline children
- Getting children to clean their room
- Having children do chores
- Children doing homework
- Children not exercising
- Excessive use of electronic and computer devices.
Testimonials
I can highly recommend Aaron. I am incredibly grateful to him for his supportive approach and positive attitude, which was exactly what our 20 year old son needed. He has assisted so much with setting goals, building confidence and self esteem and giving practical techniques for when stress and anxieties creep up. My only regret is that we didn’t contact Aaron sooner!
- Tracy
My nephew had withdrawn into his room, stopped studying and separated himself from family and friends. This continued for over 2 years. The toll on our family was enormous. As a family we had tried everything.
Then Aaron came into our family's life like a breath of fresh air.
Aaron explored issues of anxiety, depression, excessive computer use and loss of focus with my nephew. With respect and kindness,
he showed my nephew a way out. My nephew is now studying, socialising and contributing in life.
We are so grateful to Aaron. A true professional. Words fall short to express our gratitude.
- Pauline
Dear Aaron,
Thanks for helping work through some issues in our marriage. You have given us some very practical tools to use now + in the future, and I am confident we can work through almost anything that arises together as a family.
You are a lifesaver!
- Theresa & Daniel
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